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So new gf 26 and I were chilling today around some other people. She seemingly went out of her way to ask another dude to hit his vape, then went on playing hand games like him holding her hands down on the table shit like that, all while she’s laughing hysterically. To me this is a violation of what I consider reasonable boundaries based on respect for the other person. I brought this up, and she tells me it’s like I’m in middle school, and I’ll never find a woman who can tolerate such a thing. Opinions? 🤔